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Navigating the Holiday Season Sober




Staying sober during the holidays can be especially challenging with the emphasis on celebrations, gatherings, and sometimes, stress. Here are some practical tips to help you or a loved one stay sober during the holiday season:

1. Plan Ahead

  • Set Boundaries: Decide beforehand what your limits are in terms of attending parties or events where alcohol may be present. It's okay to say no or to leave early if you're feeling uncomfortable.

  • Have an Exit Strategy: If you're attending an event where drinking is likely, have a plan in place for leaving if the situation gets tough. Let a trusted friend or family member know your plans so they can support you if needed.

2. Surround Yourself with Support

  • Attend Sober Events: Look for gatherings or events specifically tailored for sober individuals. Many communities offer alcohol-free events during the holidays.

  • Reach Out to Support Groups: Whether it's AA, a therapy group, or sober friends, staying connected to people who understand your journey can provide encouragement when times are tough.

3. Prepare for Social Pressure

  • Have a Drink in Hand: Hold a non-alcoholic drink, such as sparkling water, soda, or juice. This can help avoid questions and keep people from offering you alcohol.

  • Practice Responses: Be ready with polite but firm responses to avoid pressure. For example, "I'm choosing to stay sober tonight" or "I'm on a personal challenge and not drinking."

4. Shift Focus to Non-Alcoholic Fun

  • Focus on the Holidays Beyond Alcohol: Shift your focus to enjoying other aspects of the holiday season, such as spending quality time with loved ones, sharing traditions, cooking, or volunteering.

  • Stay Active: Plan physical activities, like a holiday walk or outdoor games, which can help distract from the desire to drink and keep your mind occupied.

5. Avoid Triggers

  • Know Your Weak Spots: If certain people or places trigger cravings or bad memories, try to avoid them. If you must attend a gathering, plan how to stay strong.

  • Create Safe Spaces: Create a sanctuary in your home, such as a "sober room," where you can retreat when you need to take a break from the noise and chaos of holiday festivities.

6. Focus on Self-Care

  • Take Time for Yourself: The holiday season can bring stress, so make sure to prioritize your well-being. Engage in activities that calm and center you, such as yoga, reading, or taking walks.

  • Eat Healthy and Stay Hydrated: Good nutrition and hydration can help you feel physically and mentally balanced, reducing the chances of stress or low energy that might tempt you to drink.

7. Learn to Enjoy New Traditions

  • Explore New Celebrations: Discover new ways to celebrate the holidays without alcohol. You could try hosting a movie night, making non-alcoholic drinks like mocktails, or focusing on creating meaningful memories with your family or friends.

  • Give Yourself Permission to Enjoy: Understand that sober celebrations can be just as fulfilling. Reconnect with the deeper meaning of the season, such as gratitude, love, and togetherness.

8. Be Kind to Yourself

  • Don’t Be Too Hard on Yourself: The holidays can bring up feelings of loneliness, nostalgia, or stress. If you slip up, don’t judge yourself too harshly. Learn from the experience and refocus on your goal.

  • Celebrate Small Wins: Every day you stay sober is a victory. Celebrate your progress, whether it’s making it through a tough family gathering or simply feeling proud of your choices.

9. Have a Backup Plan for Handling Stress

  • Manage Stress Proactively: The holidays can be stressful, which can make staying sober more difficult. Practice stress-reducing techniques like meditation, journaling, or deep breathing exercises.

  • Use a Sober Buddy: Having a friend or family member who knows about your sobriety can be a big help. They can check in with you before or after events to provide support.

10. Keep Perspective

  • Stay Focused on Long-Term Goals: Remember why you’re staying sober and how it benefits you, your health, and your relationships. Keeping your long-term goals in mind can give you the strength to push through challenging moments.


Staying sober during the holidays is about making intentional choices and surrounding yourself with the right support. It’s okay to have moments of difficulty, but with the right strategies, you can enjoy a holiday season full of meaningful moments without relying on alcohol.


If you are concerned about yourself or a loved one's substance use, we are here to help! Contact us! face2face@ked.org or 716-827-9462 

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